In need of male opinions!!!?

I have been having sex with my boyfriend for a while now. We have done it over 3 times and I have lost 80 pounds. The 80 pounds left me with stretch marks on my stomach and a little belly fat. It almost looks like you can see my ribcage at the top but my belly fat at the bottom. Besides that.. I want to take off my shirt and he is always leaving casual comments like when are you going to come to the gym with me or you should play a sport. Does that mean he is unhappy with me or he is just being friendly? Should I take my shirt off and see if the casual comments become excessive after? Also.. my boobs are a bit (a little bit) saggy because I lost all that weight so they no longer sit up like they used to. I am only 18 I am very confident with my clothes on I just don't know..

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He is dropping these hints because he thinks you could look better. He may not be ahppy with the way you look, but hes not being a complete asshole about it. Go to the gym with him or on walks, or if you are nervous about the way your stomach looks, try finding clothes that will come down on your but still be around your belly. something like a corset would do. Or maybe get an actual corset. It hides the strecth marks and pushes the boobs up. Trust me, he wont be disapointed and he will know you understand what he is thinking about will like your progressive thoughts on the subject.

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• Don't stress about the gym or sports comments hun. He probably just wants you to do some other activities with him, something you can both get out and have some fun with. Take your shirt off and see what happens. I doubt he will have any problem with it, not to mention that if you plan on keeping this relationship going then there is going to have to be a time that you lose the shirt. Good luck to you and I hope it all works out!
• 9/10 you will not get a male opinion however if you are content with the way you look then move on from this relationship. He has not offended you he is simply stating that you can improve your physical appearance. The fact that he wants to help is great but if it hurts your feelings then do something about it and improve yourself. It definitely isn't that he is unhappy because most guys won't even say this to you they would just cheat or leave so the fact that he is displaying some sort of concern is good.
• I think he may be picking up on how you may not be completely satisfied with the weight loss. He may just be offering as a kind gesture to spend time together, and having you tone your body the way you like. I know it may seem like he's trying to make you feel bad but most guys think it's a secret way of saying, "I know you're unhappy with something that has to do with your body, I can help you if you want."
• I wouldn't make a comment like your boyfriend did. I would point out that you lost a ton of weight and if you're okay with it. And if you said that you feel ugly or whatever, then I would suggest working out. I would suggest that when he makes a comment again, pay attention to the tone of his voice. That should give you a better idea if he's unhappy or just being friendly.
• Well probably he is saying that because he might want u to slim even further.If you feel uncomfortable about you naked maybe you should see a plastic surgeon to remove the stretch mark and the belly fat that clearly seem to still be an issue for you.
• 3 whole times,wow :) anyway about your body: fast and excessive weight loss will leave stretch marks. in awhile your skin will shrink a little more but only real "fix" is skin reduction surgery.On the boobs: fat is what makes them full and firm. losing it will result in drop in profile and loss of "fullness". breast augmentation is solution if you want it.On belly fat: same thing as before.Fast and excessive weight loss actually results in loss of fat in all other places first(as well as loss of muscle) before loss of belly fat. This is an evolution thing: when as humans we were not subjected to a steady diet, body would store fat in the abdomen for use when food was scarce. Also genetics: i'm 1/2 American Indian and due to our feast/famine history I'm stuck with belly fat.